tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post7132350155538872639..comments2023-09-07T03:22:07.080-07:00Comments on Almost a dad: Dealing with hormonal pregnant women: don't make them feel crazierBill, almost a dadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18223299800641725922noreply@blogger.comBlogger215125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-88688677981413955662017-06-28T07:14:30.073-07:002017-06-28T07:14:30.073-07:00My pregnant wife is a devil woman. My pregnant wife is a devil woman. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-77929860730431014042017-03-24T07:57:59.824-07:002017-03-24T07:57:59.824-07:00In my experience a pregnant wife will handle your ...In my experience a pregnant wife will handle your response differently over time:<br />First pregnancy: crying, "I dont know why I'm so needy" etc, need support<br />Second pregnancy: anger, impatience, needs infinite patience<br />Third pregnancy: violence, verbal abuse, just go somewhere else for a while, you cannot fix it and your presence, no matter how you approach it, will escalateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-80212467782099635292017-01-19T09:09:49.879-08:002017-01-19T09:09:49.879-08:00Pregnate is not a word! I'm sorry but as a P-R...Pregnate is not a word! I'm sorry but as a P-R-E-G-N-A-N-T college graduate with a minor in English, grammar and typos just about send me into the abyss! CJnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-33255478648150800402017-01-19T08:22:13.344-08:002017-01-19T08:22:13.344-08:00Rederic=rhetoric
Sorry, that was driving me nuts. ...Rederic=rhetoric<br />Sorry, that was driving me nuts. 6 weeks pregnant. Yes, crazy is settling in nicely! :)CJnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-23892224203323656562016-03-04T08:40:50.227-08:002016-03-04T08:40:50.227-08:00As a presently pregnant woman, it is hard dealing ...As a presently pregnant woman, it is hard dealing with all the emotions that come with pregnancy. Not only does your body change drastically, but your emotions take on a life of their own. We are super sensitive and the smallest thing can and will set us off. It is not that we are easy to anger. Its that we are creating life, and as we create this little life we need support in so many ways. When we don't feel supported, understood, or at least calmly dealt with you get the 1.) Bitchy wife/ girlfriend who will say fucked up things and treat you poorly, or you'll get me.<br />2.) I'm the wife/ girlfriend who is extra sensitive and will throw her hands up if things are going well. Not only am I pregnant, but I have heart concerns. These heart concerns leave me very anxious every time I go to the doctor. You should always go to the doctor visit with her, as much as possible. If she is not a priority to you, then you should be discussing things like how you all plan to raise the child when the relationship ends. If she has EVER made you a priority. Now is the time to support her. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-22065222648418316142015-11-05T09:39:07.361-08:002015-11-05T09:39:07.361-08:00My fair lady is angry every morning shes 6 weeks w...My fair lady is angry every morning shes 6 weeks with second child n has depression following first pregnancy. So each day can be a hazardous one. Today I walked the dog and came back to her laid feet up aying on her phone. Toddler needed nappy change si I did that while she ignored this. I then got changed fir work quickly as I was running late came down n she had a rant about washing machine aparently filter blocked. So not knowing it was full I opened the filter n flooded the kitchen. A bag was blocking the filter that was also my faukt. Now running late I started mopping n getting water up whilst getting further abuse now because of a female co worker she reckons ive had an affair with , in what time exactly do I have for this.... she gets angry kicks the bucket at me n re floods kitchen n then adds some corn flakes for good measure. Shes pissed off to a hotel n left everything to me now im back from wo rk. Been getting abusive texts all day if I dint reply im a #### if I do im a bigger #### cant win n not trying tograhamnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-85038249131355790142015-11-05T05:05:53.731-08:002015-11-05T05:05:53.731-08:00This blog is great. My lady is 6 weeks with our se...This blog is great. My lady is 6 weeks with our second child and on depression medication following the first pregnancy so you can imagine alot of tongue biting.<br /><br />Today i was running late for work after walking the dog and feeding our 2 year old and i got shouted at becsause the filter on teh washing machine was blocked, not realising she had run a load through a open the filter and flooded teh kitchen after furtehr abuse she told me she was leaving and would be better off without me - off to work i went to get some space after leaving a load of towels in teh kicthen the mop bucket was thrown at me along with some corn flakes so best get out of the way.<br /><br />Ive simmered down now but wonder what state the house will be in when i returnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-89728704804235899312015-07-27T23:08:04.004-07:002015-07-27T23:08:04.004-07:00Men, very simply.......be men. She needs a solid a...Men, very simply.......be men. She needs a solid and unwavering patient man to be there as much as humanly possible and to endure 'this storm'. When it gets really, really bad I get my 2 young sons and we get out of the house for a while. We usually go do something fun and this gives my wife some time alone to rest, reflect, nest, cry, or angrily text me. FYI, do not, I repeat......do not respond reflexively to these comments or texts. This is will be our second child together and this pregnancy is very much on track to be as difficult as the last. I cannot believe how similar many of these posts are to our relationship-during pregnancy. Hang in there, that is your job, take it and shut up. Also, if your wife, fiancee, girlfriend has a past history of mental illness (e.g. Depression, Mood Disorder, Bipolar, Anxiety) get ready and be prepared for Postpartum Depression. Onset occurs anytime from 5 days after birth to several weeks later. This condition is more common in women with past psychiatric disorders but can occur in any woman after giving birth at a rate of 1 in 7 women post delivery. If her behavior changes 'WILDLY' after birth look up this condition and speak with her OB/GYN or PCP or Psychologist about your concerns. I don't mean to scare anyone but I've honestly been there and done that. Hang in there and do what is needed to protect and care for your new family. Oh and seriously read these valuable comments and stories. You Are Not Alone.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12601782751123649161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-30147162224698153302015-05-10T09:07:34.476-07:002015-05-10T09:07:34.476-07:00Me and my pregnant gf was talking then outta nowhe...Me and my pregnant gf was talking then outta nowhere she like she need to be detached from me becuase she said she was depressed not happy then she said she feel she don't wanna be pregnant no more. But she didn't brake up with me or left me she said What should I do?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11555391647520046875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-910968410590467412015-01-04T13:17:11.967-08:002015-01-04T13:17:11.967-08:00Me and my gorgeous girlfriend have been together f...Me and my gorgeous girlfriend have been together for nearly 3 years and I love her to bits and kids.. ( there not mine but I wish tjey where) my girlfriend zoeh is 8 weeks pregnant and she is really moody and stressy and keeps snapping at me and kids.. I know shes pregnant and hormonal but it only seems to be me shes stressing at.. with the nabours shes fine and dandy and acting like nothing happened.. she snapvat me over the slightest little things.. and she says the horriblest things to hurt me and it really dose hurt.. its like walking on egg shells most of the time.. I love this woman to bits and befour she was pregnant she was loving and caring always up for a laugh.. and since we've found out its all changed.. I adore zoeh and id do anything for her and kids.. and recently shes started calling herself fat and horrible.. and to hear herself talk like that brakes my heart.. she wants me to leave and stuff but I dont want to because I know its the pregancy.. any advice please people.. thank you in advance.. michaelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-23289195440478269922014-12-20T21:03:42.455-08:002014-12-20T21:03:42.455-08:00Holy hell man been there . My girl left me when sh...Holy hell man been there . My girl left me when she was 4 months pregnant I was afraid I was going to miss the baby moving around in the stomach, all I ever wanted out of life was a family , I wanted it with her. Bro keep making those appts and be on time , ask the important questions to the doctor in front of her, this will show her your true interest in not only the baby but her.... rub her back and feed her kid ... hang in there man your story sounds a lot like mine .... we made it and now are expecting another baby .... Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11943184793545595635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-89929868689577053982014-12-16T11:43:09.906-08:002014-12-16T11:43:09.906-08:00okay so ive been with my girlfriend for just two m...okay so ive been with my girlfriend for just two months, im 24 and she is 29. we were using contraception i.e. she was on the pill but this last week she hasnt been her usual self and two days ago i found out why, she is 4-5 weeks pregnant. we knew each other 4 years prior to getting together and we are like best friends as well as partners. but since we have found out the news she has been very different. she is not talking to me pretty much at all and she is not being herself. one min me and her will be on the phone having a laugh and a joke and then 20 mins after the convo she doesnt wanna know. its killing me because i fear that im losing her day by day. yes we got pregnant so soon into the relationship but the pill just didnt work in this case. im trying to do all in my power to make her happy and try and have a conversation with her but its like im her enemy. i dont know what to do someone please tell me what i should do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-1561532408851098302014-11-06T22:23:58.211-08:002014-11-06T22:23:58.211-08:00I am 4 months pregnant trying to get my man to rea...I am 4 months pregnant trying to get my man to realize how much better he needs to treat me. I told him an hour and 15 minutes ago to read these articles and I just told him how long I have been waiting and he told me to "shut up" and "who the fu** cares about some articles someone else wrote!"Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16682273547371062644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-30953133574125417612014-08-31T21:01:58.671-07:002014-08-31T21:01:58.671-07:00I am 28 weeks pregnant and this week has been awfu...I am 28 weeks pregnant and this week has been awful, I am guessing for both of us. I feel completely insane, to be honest. My boyfriend isn't the best with expressing himself either. I've been very tearful and his response to it is ''not again' followed by telling me I used to be fun to be around before.....obviously this did not go down well. He rejects my affections or is cold when I get needy. I am trying to be understanding but I feel like it should be him trying to be understanding. Instead I am running around apologising for myself and being basically nuts. <br /><br />He asked me this morning if It would turn me on to watch him have sex with another woman. Now I'm totally freaked out. He said it was just a joke and now I'm twisting his words....he did only ask it lightly but I really don't think this is the thing to be saying to your third trimester girlfriend!!!now I'm sitting here thinking he is bored and fed up of me and wants to be with other people and then he is telling me to relax and stop imagining things, and he asked me if I'm bipolar......what am I to do?? I have no support. <br /><br />He has been trying his best but recently it's gone quite bad. He doesn't seem to be able to cope with my ups and downs which really have not been that extreme until this week, where I have just been exhausted and crying and unable to sleep. Naturally I'm going to be a bit strange in these circumstances but he is making it worse instead of better.<br /><br />Please help me! I'm up all night tonight just freaking out and feel extremely frightened and alone. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-79133375291528471592014-08-27T18:42:12.988-07:002014-08-27T18:42:12.988-07:00Suck it up. We're 9weeks I'm.basically wor...Suck it up. We're 9weeks I'm.basically worse than Hitler. It's not their fault. And every time.I have gotten to the point where I just want her to actually go through with the threats of leaving me. I breath and remember it's not her fault. <br /><br />Find someway to laugh manically it helps.<br />And internally say back what you want. Externally appolagies. It's just our egos that are hurt fellas. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-3391978957950990252014-04-13T11:05:24.722-07:002014-04-13T11:05:24.722-07:00I'm mark iv been with my wife 2 years been mar...I'm mark iv been with my wife 2 years been married 5 months,my wife living with her mum and dad till I sell my house I live 60 miles away but I make sure I see her every week,she is 4 and half months pregnant every thing was ok we wasvso in love ,when she found she was pregnant then a light switch went off on her amd she completely changed,she found out she had depression of doctors but she kept pushing me away, 2 days ago my birthday was yesterday she said she does'nt love me anymore and we should'nt of got married, her mum says its her hormones but I don't know please help markAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-8274902571879248462014-02-10T06:37:26.719-08:002014-02-10T06:37:26.719-08:00For me, all the "honey, love, dear, bello&quo...For me, all the "honey, love, dear, bello" and any kind of sweet noum has been deleted from her vocabulary in an instant. <br /><br />My fiance, whom I love to death, is regrettably changed unto what so many of you have described. The question for me was, how should I proceed and react to the meanness? <br /><br />The first few instances were rebutted by me "how on earth would you believe I don't feel for you and what's going on? You are very wrong miss, very very wrong" ...stuff like that only made her cry and then I felt like a true monster...<br /><br />I told her I only want to be part of "this" and to please do not alienate me. She has apologized in brief moments of sanity--but they don't last long. Thanks to blogs like this, I have been able to see what's really going on.<br /><br />Yet, even when I know this is hormonal, sometimes I ask myself if she doesn't see how mean she's being or selfish and downright unjust. <br /><br />I'll try to build a mental fortress to withstand the blows because sometimes they are so strong that I feel they can bring down the relationship; however, I know better.<br /><br />GhostWriternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-54064149886891603642013-11-15T14:27:05.650-08:002013-11-15T14:27:05.650-08:00I'm tired of keeping my mouth shut and trying ...I'm tired of keeping my mouth shut and trying to ignore the meaness and cold-herartedness. I understand there are hormones invloved but that is no excuse for treating your husband like a dirt bag and blaming everything bad on him a little forgive and forget is ok, but it is getting ridiculous at this 4 month mark!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-24244197148023167232013-11-07T02:02:03.488-08:002013-11-07T02:02:03.488-08:00I am 4 months pregnant with my 4th child, recently...I am 4 months pregnant with my 4th child, recently gone through a deeply trying divorce and consequently some very difficult times financially, emotionally...and everything else ending in "ally"<br />My boyfriend is 14 yrs younger than me and a wonderful, beautiful person. We have come from very different backgrounds and have had to make some serious compromises to make sure our relationship works, so it has also been an added challenge. Having been through 3 previous pregnancies I can honestly say that although I was a little teary and somewhat cheeky at times, I got through relatively unscathed. <br />However, this time round, I've taken crazy to a whole new level. Its interesting to read how both men and women say how we, as pregnant women, KNOW we're acting crazy and we must work to control it. The thing with me, is that because I've had SUCH an incredibly difficult and emotional year I struggle to see where I'm being "hormonal" or when my issues are valid. The line is so blurred. I honestly can't tell, and I'm an intelligent person with all the knowledge in the world trying to stay sane.<br />All I can say to you men out there, is.... try and compare this woman you love in crazy mode, to the person you met. And where the discrepancies are - there's your hormones! Those are the parts you need to ignore, or be gentle with. <br />It's so difficult though, to explain the rush of emotions that flood your body. It's so hard to explain, and even when you logically KNOW that him calling the company secretary to send an email on his behalf is NO reason to go off the wall, you feel the symptoms start. Your breathing quickens, your heart starts to race, your hands start to shake.... all the symptoms of EXTREME anger, and we just need time and care and gentleness until these chemicals leave our bodies. It's such an unwelcome feeling, it's almost impossible to control.<br />Sadly, it took the most awful circumstances for myself and my man to actually deal with these matters.<br />Things have always been...passionate. But looking back, when I felt pregnant this time things went downhill very quickly and our arguments turned into FIGHTS. He has battled with controlling his own anger anyway, so the mix was toxic. We fought, and made up, and 2 days later we were at it again... the one day he went off at me for no reason and I reached the end of my own very short tether and told him to get out of my house. he wouldnt, he dug his heels in and so did I, and it turned nasty. I left, told him I wouldnt be back. That night he went out and got terribly drunk, and as a "single man" kissed another woman. Two days later he told me, just when I thought we were going to work something out, and I FLIPPED out completely. I fell apart, I was broken! That night I told him to call this woman and basically make her feel like I felt, and he refused, said it wasnt her fault. I took that as him choosing her over me, and the mother of all fights started. He yelled, and I physically attacked him - flooded with terrible pain and hurt and anger and HORMONES. He fought back, and being a little person, I came out second best. But the rage... it was frightening. He tried to hit him with a huge fan, a bicycle, a laptop and numerous other household items. I left the house, broken, bleeding and sobbing...he was bruised and traumatised.<br />BUT, we have used this as a huge wake up and we are both very aware of our own weaknesses... but I have another 5 months of pregnancy to go so it will be hard. However, if we can come through this, in my current state, then we can survive anything. <br />Don't stop trying people. Ladies - it's tough and hidden well inside our usual emotional states. Men, it's not about you... treat us kindly, dont patronise us and please try and ride the storm. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-8320581488916065282013-08-20T07:17:55.737-07:002013-08-20T07:17:55.737-07:00I am eleven weeks pregnant for the first time. I l...I am eleven weeks pregnant for the first time. I like to think that I am normally a fairly logical and intelligent person, and I want to have a good relationship with my husband. But for the past month my husband and I have been arguing ALL THE TIME. I know it is my fault, I have been having these crazy mood swings and I say things that I don't mean. I also cry all the time. My husband is so nice, after each argument he says he loves me and not to worry about it. But seriously, we got into it again last night and this morning I thought you know maybe I should just take my tent and camping gear and go live in the woods by myself for a while. MEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HARD IT IS TO BE PREGNANT. We don't want to act mean and crazy and we feel horrible afterwards. Please if your girlfriend or wife acts crazy and calls you names just forgive her and try go get over it. Katie Roachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16858145071341689405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-63519073334931592682013-08-13T21:37:39.729-07:002013-08-13T21:37:39.729-07:00I am having a horrible time dealing with my wife. ...I am having a horrible time dealing with my wife. She is 9 months pregnant, and I swear I feel like they have been hell. I don't know what to do or say at time. I am somehow always wrong, not that men are ever right agaisnt women, but it got 1000 times worse. And don't get me wrong, I love my wife, but I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like running away and coming back when she is in labor. I have put up with so much. She has called me every name possible in the book. And like someone wrote on there post, we men do have feelings to and can only take so much. Where is the line drawn? When can we actually say stop already. Enough is enough. Or do we have to put up with it? And just shut up and yes honey your right and I'm sorry. And I'm not even sure what I'm sorry about, but I'm sorry. <br /><br />But more importantly I can't wait for our baby to be born and hopefully my wife comes back to earth. And hopefully we can live a happy life as a familyCataleyaRBIIInoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-62343017987582809832013-08-08T14:15:41.307-07:002013-08-08T14:15:41.307-07:00I woke the other night and my fiancé was awake and...I woke the other night and my fiancé was awake and told me she wanted to punch me in the face because I was sleeping so well and she couldn't. She's 12 weeks and getting worse...I have a temper and really struggle to keep quiet. I just leave the room and let her play the steel drums or whatever it is she does to make so much noise...shit here she comes! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-57422570128445498382013-05-31T18:35:21.291-07:002013-05-31T18:35:21.291-07:00It's crazy i read all these different stories,...It's crazy i read all these different stories, and it makes me think of my niece she is 20 has a 1 yr old girl and is now pregnant 6 mo with a little baby boy she met there dad almost 3 yrs ago and they first fell in love right out of high school she got pregnant with there daughter a little quick and they lived with his mother of course had nothing but issues, they finally got there own place and now all of a sudden he decides he can't handle her constant bitching and try's to put the blame all on her and he broke up with her so of course she had no choice but to move back home with her parents and is now she is totally lost and i do not blame her, he is 21 and of course like i said blames her his excuse on breaking up with her was he cant handle her but in all reality is i think he cant handle the idea of growing up and being a man and he is using her being prego as his poor ass excuse to leave her cause he rather hang out with his friends 3 4 times a week while she works 40 plus hours she comes home takes responsibility as a mother yes he works but he thinks hanging with friends is more important now don't get me wrong he loves his daughter and she adores her daddy, but what about mommy, they where so in love when they first met he proposed to her they where going to get married, i just feel so bad for her cause her hormones where raging before and now its worse and he has put so much strain on her emotions that she not eating good hasn't gained but like maybe 8 lbs doesn't seem to care about the baby shower no more, don't get me wrong she is an ossum mother and loves her daughter and is going to love her son just the same but this is soooo hard on her, and with all she is going through i don't think he could evvvvvver possibly understand the kinda strain she is in and going through, i think more men need to read the stories on sites like this to get a better understanding as to what women truly go through. its really sad cause she is so young to be going through this sort of thing so soon in her life when i was her age i had a child to don't get me wrong but i never experienced anything so hurtful till i got much older and she is just going to hold such a grudge towards men waaaaaay to soon in her life, all i know is like i said if you cant handle a little bitchyness for a while cause your girl is acting crazy think before you leap and don't get a girl prego if you cant handle the heat from it cause without you being involved as a man she wouldn't be going trough what she is cause girls don't just get prego on there own it takes you to do that so every man if that's truly what you are stand strong by her side and not make her do it alone cause she wasn't alone when it happened. honeysucklehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09553524808648701470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-14377923707688532472013-05-22T03:09:40.964-07:002013-05-22T03:09:40.964-07:00I can't believe what I'm reading on this s...I can't believe what I'm reading on this site, I could have written half of these comments as they apply to me so much! We have a beautiful 3 year old daughter, we had a brief 3 month seperation last year but realised we couldn't be apart so got back together, we were trying for another child and she fell pregnant, we married on Feb 1st, she wanted us to move to a certain area which I didn't but never the less I found us a lovely 3 bed detached place, the local school was voted 2nd best in the county! perfect area, peaceful, So in we moved, I work and pay for everything as she is a stay at home mum, I was working hard to try to pay for the house and buy things we need, decorate etc, and still try to take us out for family days / meals etc, one of our "clicks" is that we always have been really into each other sexually! To me everything was perfect, recently married, new home , baby on the way but then I started to notice her distancing herself, no kisses, no hugs, no form of physical contact whatsoever, barely even a goodbye kiss as I was off to work, I tried talking to her but had no response, then she hit me with it, I'm leaving, I don't love you, we can't be together anymore!?!? confused the hell outta me, she has moved back to her mums 6 weeks after we moved into the house that she so desperately wanted and I fought so hard to get for us, I'm absolutely broken by this and miss her and my little angel so so much! I cannot believe what is happening, we had everything that we had both always wanted! I know her mood swings were eratic to say the least with our 1st child but the second she gave birth she went back to being her old self so we got together properly, I really really am at my wits end!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14871603499593292117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433557971157738193.post-37020426369493472182013-05-22T02:58:33.760-07:002013-05-22T02:58:33.760-07:00I cannot believe I have found this site, I thought...I cannot believe I have found this site, I thought I was the only man in the world, we have a beautiful 3 year old daughter, we split last year for 3 months but realised we couldn't be apart so got back 2gether and married on 1st Feb "This year"......I have done everything she asked, she wanted to move to a certain area " I didn't " but went along with it and found us a gorgeous 3 bed detached place, my little one went strsight in the 2nd best voted school in the county, we spoke about another child, so she is now 16 weeks pregnant, Iv'e been working so hard trying to pay for the new house, decorate it etc and still try to take us out for family days / meals etc, I noticed her becoming increasingly distant, no more "I love you" no more cuddling, could barely get a bye-bye kiss as i was heading out of the door, no form of physical contact whatsoever, no nice texts during the day at all, then the bobmshell, I don't want us to be together anymore! I don't think I love you anymore! so she has now moved back to her mums along with my daughter whom I barely get to see now! It's breaking me in 2!! Iv'e tried my hardest to do all I can for us and just do not understand, she was exactly the same with the pregnancy of our 1st daughter but as soon as she gave birth went back to normal, this site is amazing as there may be some light at the end of the tunnel I hope, I just want us to be a family as I love them so so much!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14871603499593292117noreply@blogger.com